How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk.pdf

How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk.pdf
 

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★美国家庭教育十大畅销书之一,销售300多万册,被译为30多种文字风靡全球。长踞美国畅销书排行榜,出版20多年长销不衰。
★美国最著名的亲子教育书系作者,送给中国父母的最好礼物——爱的技巧和训练。
  “你这孩子怎么那么不听话?”面对孩子的行为做父母的常常忍不住脱口而出。是的,天凉了让加衣服就是不加,地板凉可就是要打光脚,就是不要刷牙,就是要把饭弄得满桌子都是,就是不叫叔叔阿姨,就是要把屋子弄得乱七八糟,到吃饭的点了可就是还要看电视,就是不愿意做作业……等等,全是怎么说都不听。
  无数家长为此烦恼,家里充满呵斥和吵嚷声,可是没用,火药味越发浓烈,问题却解决不了。
  要是有《如何说孩子才会听·怎么听孩子才肯说》能让你学会一种语言,说出话来孩子就会听,你会吃惊吗?
  不必惊奇,《如何说孩子才会听,怎么听孩子才肯说》将帮助你学会一种让孩子听话的神奇语言,这种爱的语言使孩子很容易接受您的要求和忠告。世界上数以千万的父母用自身的亲身实践证明了书中提供的方法非常有效。该书在美国畅销300多万册,并被翻译成30多种文字风靡全球。世界各地的父母和专家热情洋溢地赞誉两位作者,她们在长期的实践中摸索出的这套语言是那样行之有效,的的确确能缓解所有年龄段的孩子与父母的紧张关系,结束父母与孩子的冲突对抗,带来父母和孩子的合作。 
  如何阅读《如何说孩子才会听·怎么听孩子才肯说》
  每个人的阅读习惯各有不同,有人喜欢从中间读起,有人愿意从后面开始看。但我们建议你先通过浏览漫  画对本书大致有一个了解后,从第一章慢慢读起,并且一边读,一边认真做书中的练习。不要跳过练习直接阅读你认为精彩的章节。如果有朋友和你一起做练习,效果会更好,你们可以充分地交流和讨论。
此外,我们还建议做练习的时候,写下你的答案,使本书变成你的一份个人记录。不必介意你的书写是不是工整,是否有涂改,只管把它记下来就好。
  《如何说孩子才会听·怎么听孩子才肯说》适合慢慢去读。我们花了十年的时间来学习书中的理念。当你认同书中的观点的时候,可能心里就会想有一些改变,但是改变不是一朝一夕的事情,需要我们从一点一滴开始做起。可以尝试这样的方法:每读完一章后,把书放在一边,给自己留出一周的时间来演练,然后再接着读。你也许会说:“我有很多事情要做,哪有时间做练习?”但是,经验告诉我们,父母必须通过练习把理论变成行动,并且记录下结果,才能使学到的技巧真正内化。
  最后,是关于在人称方面的一个解释。为了避免造成性别歧视的误会,以及繁琐的“他/她”或者“他的/她的”的表达方式,我们在书中随机地使用“他”或者“她”,来泛指一个人。
  另外,《如何说孩子才会听·怎么听孩子才肯说》出自两位作者,书中的观点来自我们共同的感悟和经验。为了方便阅读,我们统一采用第一人称“我”来阐述观点,而免去了用“阿黛尔·法伯”和“伊莱恩·玛兹丽施”这样繁冗的表达方式。
《如何说孩子才会听·怎么听孩子才肯说》所提供的沟通方法和技巧,让我们无论与家人沟通还是外界形形色色的人交流都受益匪浅,所以在这里非常愿意与各位读者一起分享。

名人推荐
一本父母与孩子沟通的圣经。
                ——《波斯顿环球报》Boston Globe

  一本十分优秀的图书,其理念和方法甚至适用于任何关系的相处。
                ——《华盛顿邮报》Washington Post

  这本书会让成人俯下身和孩子一样,然后把孩子上升到成人的水平,一旦成功,这种快乐的交流平台就能真正创造家庭的和睦。
                ——《洛杉矶时报》Los Angeles Times

  这本书使父母停止对孩子的大声嚷叫和训斥,取而代之的是与孩子更多的合作。
                ——《基督教科学箴言报》Christian Science Monitor

  操作性强,非常睿智,思路清晰,法伯和玛兹丽施所设计的方法是如此地有逻辑,以致读着读着就会爆炸般地有很多意外的发现。
                ——美国《家庭》杂志Family Journal

  《如何说…》不是一本空中楼阁一样的理论书,它完完全全基于作者和父母们一起做出来的实验结果,而且这些父母用自身的实践证明它是有效的。”
                ——《费城询问报》

  一本和孩子有效沟通的超级指导,作者清晰简洁创造了一套操作方法,使做家长变得更高效和更快乐。
                ——美国幼儿协会前主席:罗伯特 M.赫文瑞奇

  这本书太可爱了!法伯和玛兹丽施给读者提供了一种魔幻般的机会,让父母们能在行动中看清自己,并且在犯那种可能是毁灭性的错误之前就预先修正自己的行为。
                ——《母性的选择》作者:西尔维亚·费德马

  一本和孩子有效沟通的超级指导,我推荐着本书给几乎每一个人和每一个父母,不论她的孩子多大年龄或是她的孙子孙女多大年龄。
                ——美国《女性新方向》

  “无论我走到哪,我都向人们推荐《如何说…》这本书,它真正地释放了父母,释放了孩子。”
               ——Nathaniel Branden 《自尊心理学》的作者

媒体推荐
An exceptional work, not simply just another 'how to' bookAll parents can use these methods to improve the everyday quality of their relationships with their children. -- Fort Worth Star Telegram

"Designed to bring adults to the level of children, and children to the level of adults, so that this happy meeting ground can truly make for harmony in the home." -- Los Angeles Times

"Faber and Mazlish are doing for parenting today what Dr. Spock did for our generation." -- Parent Magazine

"Practical, sensible, lucid the approaches Faber and Mazlish lay out are so logical you wonder why you read them with such a burst of discovery." -- Family Journal

"The parenting bible." -- Boston Globe

"Will bring about more cooperation from children than all the yelling and pleading in the world." -- Christian Science Monitor

作者简介
作者:(美国)阿黛尔•法伯(Adele Faber) (美国)伊莱恩•玛兹丽施(Elaine Mazlish)

阿黛尔•法伯(Adele Faber)和伊莱恩•玛兹丽施(Elaine Mazlish),国际著名亲子沟通专家,美国最畅销亲子教育书系作者。阿黛尔•法伯,本科毕业于美国皇后学院的戏剧专业,获学士学位,又在纽约大学获教育学硕士学位。她曾在纽约市的高中任教8年。伊莱恩•玛兹丽施,本科毕业于纽约大学,获舞台美术的学士学位,毕业后创建并指导了格罗斯维诺尔和雷诺克斯•希尔社区活动中心的儿童节目。她同时也是一位专业的画家和作曲家。她们是纽约市社会研究新校和长岛大学家庭生活研究所的创建者。《如何说孩子才会听•怎么听孩子才肯说》是她们在创办的学校和研究所长期与父母们一起进行实验的研究总结。如今世界上数以千万的父母用自身的实践证明这些方法非常有效。她们除了在美国和加拿大各地频繁演讲外,还经常出现在《早安美国》(Good Morning America)和《欧普拉》(Oprah)等热门电视节目里。法伯与玛兹丽施都是三位孩子的母亲,她们已被收录于美国名人录。

Internationally acclaimed experts on communication between adults and children, Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish have won the gratitude of parents and the enthusiastic endorsement of the professional community.

Their first book, Liberated Parents/Liberated Children, received the Christopher Award for "literary achievement affirming the highest values of the human spirit." Their subsequent books, How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk and the #1 New York Times bestseller Siblings Without Rivalry, have sold over 3 million copies and have been translated into more than twenty languages. Their group workshop programs and videos produced by PBS are currently used by thousands of parents' groups around the globe. Their most recent book, How to Talk So Kids Can Learn-At Home and in School, was cited by Child magazine as the "best book of the year for excellence in family issues and education."

Both authors studied with the late child psychologist, Dr. Haim Ginott, and are former members of the faculty of The New School for Social Research in New York City and The Family Life Institute of Long Island University. In addition to their frequent lectures throughout the United States and Canada, they have appeared on every major television show from "Good Morning America" to "The Oprah Winfrey Show." They currently reside in Long Island, New York, and each is the parent of three children.

内容简介
《如何说孩子才会听怎么听孩子才肯说》是美国家庭教育十大畅销书之一,销售300多万册,被译为30多种文字版本广泛传颂,全球父母亲子必读。该书长踞美国畅销书排行榜,长居《纽约时报》亲子类畅销书排行榜,出版20多年长销不衰。
★中国大陆唯一授权正版中文精装本!
★美国最著名的亲子教育书系作者,送给中国父母的最好礼物——爱的技巧和训练。
  “你这孩子怎么那么不听话?”面对孩子的行为做父母的常常忍不住脱口而出。是的,天凉了让加衣服就是不加,地板凉可就是要打光脚,就是不要刷牙,就是要把饭弄得满桌子都是,就是不叫叔叔阿姨,就是要把屋子弄得乱七八糟,到吃饭的点了可就是还要看电视,就是不愿意做作业……等等,全是怎么说都不听。
  阅读本书的经历,将是一次学习爱的技巧与接受爱的训练的过程, 它给了你走进孩子内心世界的钥匙,指引你切身体会孩子内心的感受。通过一系列实用有效的方法,帮助你和孩子建立起一个能够快乐交流的平台,使孩子变得不同寻常地愿意与父母配合。掌握了“如何说?”“怎么听?”的技巧,就能开启孩子的心灵世界,与孩子达成美妙的交流沟通,让孩子在您的引导下身心健康发展。

Publisher Comments :
You Can Stop Fighting With Your Children

Here is the bestselling book that will give you the know-how you need to be more effective with your children--and more supportive of yourself. Enthusiastically praised by parents and professionals around the world, the down-to-earth, respectful approach of Faber and Mazlish makes relationships with children of all ages less stressful and more rewarding. Now, in this Twentieth Anniversary Edition, these award-winning experts share their latest insights and suggestions based upon feedback they've received over the years.

Their methods of communication-illustrated with delightful cartoons showing the skills in action-offer innovative ways to solve common problems. You'll learn how to:
1.Cope with your child's negative feelings-frustration, disappointment, anger, etc.
2.Express your anger without being hurtful
3.Engage your child's willing cooperation
4.Set firm limits and still maintain goodwill
5.Use alternatives to punishment
6.Resolve family conflicts peacefully

Amazon.com
How to Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids Will Talk is an excellent communication tool kit based on a series of workshops developed by Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish. Faber and Mazlish (coauthors of Siblings Without Rivalry) provide a step-by-step approach to improving relationships in your house. The "Reminder" pages, helpful cartoon illustrations, and excellent exercises will improve your ability as a parent to talk and problem-solve with your children. The book can be used alone or in parenting groups, and the solid tools provided are appropriate for kids of all ages.

About Author
Internationally acclaimed experts on communication between adults and children, Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish have won the gratitude of parents and the enthusiastic endorsement of the professional community.

Their first book, Liberated Parents/Liberated Children, received the Christopher Award for "literary achievement affirming the highest values of the human spirit." Their subsequent books, How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk and the #1 New York Times bestseller Siblings Without Rivalry, have sold over 3 million copies and have been translated into more than twenty languages. Their group workshop programs and videos produced by PBS are currently used by thousands of parents' groups around the globe. Their most recent book, How to Talk So Kids Can Learn-At Home and in School, was cited by Child magazine as the "best book of the year for excellence in family issues and education."

Both authors studied with the late child psychologist, Dr. Haim Ginott, and are former members of the faculty of The New School for Social Research in New York City and The Family Life Institute of Long Island University. In addition to their frequent lectures throughout the United States and Canada, they have appeared on every major television show from "Good Morning America" to "The Oprah Winfrey Show." They currently reside in Long Island, New York, and each is the parent of three children.

From Los Angeles Times
"Designed to bring adults to the level of children, and children to the level of adults, so that this happy meeting ground can truly make for harmony in the home."

Book Dimension
Height (mm) 206                   Width (mm) 138

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